Chap.18/Act.3
The limits I set for my behavior are knowing when to say “no” to people in any given situation and to know where to draw the line when a situation goes too far or get to be inappropriate. I call my boundaries the “boundary bubble.” I don’t let just anyone into it; I don’t let people I have just met or don’t know in my personal space. I only let my friends, family, and people I trust into my bubble; as a result, I feel that I have healthy boundaries. I don’t let people walk over me and I don’t let people talk me into doing something I’m not comfortable doing. I think that these boundaries gradually develop over time; furthermore, I think your life experiences have a big part in what your own personal boundaries are and what they turn out to be. I really don’t need to change my personal limits and boundaries; I feel comfortable and confident right where there are.